"IT WILL END IN TEARS"! TRUE LOVE STORY

                                                                                               
 3 to 4 months of having a crush on someone,you either fall in love with that person or become interested in someone New. She saw this cute guy and their eyes collided at the same time,and I swear it was love at first sight.Their inside fears got the best of them and they were even afraid of exchanging their phone numbers,but that long exchange of blushy eyes only explained one thing.Love at first sight. A few days later,they finally found a way to communicate and exchange their contacts.Obviously the guy became friends with her and strictly offered pure friendship to the girl and she was cool with it. Little did they know that once you have feelings for one another,there's no way you can cover it with pure friendship. They were dying to officially be together and so it was done.The girl was madly and blindly in love with the guy and nothing seemed to stop her. She would do anything for the guy,he was his source of joy after all.They would  meet during weekends and have fun,get drunk,smoke when necessary,make out and it was the best thing that could ever happen to those two.When together,they would do absolutely everything that two people who are in love would opt to. Life was tremendously like a movie or a soap opera based on their immense love.

Well,someone once said that everything that's got a beginning has got an end,I was reluctant to believe the cli'che but I guess now I have to.After couples of months of them enjoying the tremendous love things started falling a part.I don't want to sound gender biased but obviously the guy,just like other guys what they always do is to toy with a girls heart and feelings and eventually dumps them.She already saw this coming but  didn't want to accept the fact that her boyfriend had changed and behaved in a way that showed he didn't want to do anything with her. She valued her dignity and didn't want to move from one guy to another so she had to stay. Mainly because she loved him and had never stopped loving the guy.

Generally,women care more in relationship than men would but are more likely to walk away and stay away once they reach breaking point. She became sad, stressed and above all depressed. Thinking of leaving the guy tore her soul a part and it was so hard for her. Yeah, it's true. When a woman loves, she loves for real and letting go of someone she dreamnt of spending the rest of her life with was too painful. It was high time she accepted reality. Sometimes,the only reason why you won' let go of what's making you sad is because it was the only thing that made you happy.

After two months of emotional struggling,she decided to confront her boyfriend to know the final verdict, to know what is it she hasn't been doing right, to know what is it she did wrong that sh was really paying painfully in ignorance unlike the good old days. She has stayed in an emotional abusive relationship hoping that things would someday change and get back to normal. She had hoped that her boyfriend would change but anyway who is she to tryna change him if his mother couldn't manage to change him.When she dared to confront her boyfriend about the sudden change in behavior and attitude towards her, he just responded aimlessly that he'd been having a girlfriend throughout, the whole time she was with him and that he needed a break up because he has now realized he's happy with her "supposed" girlfriend.And as if that was not enough, he told her that whatever was going on between the two of them was nothing but "pure friendship" It doesn't stop hurting, does it?! It was so painful for her to take it. She cried helplessly asking her boyfriend why he couldn't  just tell  her earlier before it was too late to a point of them hurting each other's  feelings but the guy arrogantly remained silent and took off  leaving her in flood of tears. She was so devastated, she even opted to commit suicide but her two best friends kept comforting her and always being their for her.

Falling in love is easy,staying in love is a challenge,letting go is hard,and moving on is the hardest. She had to learn to accept the situation as it is and move on painfully. Yeah, because what's done is done, right. After sleepless nights of crying and soaking the pillows, sadness, regrets it was high time she accepted reality. How many nights do we have to lie awake in tears. Well don't you render that you can win in this thing called love,because when you want it the most there's no easy way out,and that's the way it is.If only there was only Love....... She one day just decided that today will be a day of letting go. Today she'd let go of her Boyfriend. After a long period of emotional turmoil,of loving and never really knowing if she was loved in return,she'd finally closed the chapter on the turbulent,passionate,savagely painful love that had left her life in tatters and her spirit crushed.

Many months ago, she'd never have had the strength to turn her back on her boyfriend. She'd always forgiven him, made excuses for him, let him control and manipulate her just because she was so madly drunk in love with him. The "I love you's im sorrys, you're the only woman who understands me's,"the words that had promised a love which had never been delivered,had always got to her as he knew they would. They'd always stopped the pain for a little while at least, because she had so badly wanted to hear them. Her boyfriend knew how vulnerable she was. He'd always counted on that and on her compassion. He'd played with her emotions. She'd danced to his tune. But not anymore. Now she was free of him. She'd put the past behind her and taken a step towards a new life. 

If only there was only love......!!! She'd become the hardest to love and a woman with no soul. She scared to get hurt again.Maybe Memelords are right,some of us are never ment to fall in love and be loved back as we deserve, BUT to comment on other couples posts and relationship goals like "Wow, nice couple, Wow the two of you look good together"

If you are reading this,this is a delicious tale of a lady who has had enough and is full of vengeance. People fall in love on average seven times before marriage. So if you're reading this just beware that before you've reached your seventh relationship, am sorry to say this, but its the truth.IT WILL END IN TEARS.....!!!!!!! No it's not a threat, it's a fact. Butte truth. It will end in tears.

         Script based on real life situation.By Miss 23rd April. TUM-Varsity student.

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Sherry said…
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Faith Mbithe said…
Incredible, the content the flow is just superb
Facts but they say love is blind
Miss 23rd April said…
Thanks Y'all
@Miss 23rd April.
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EMMA said…
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